The Pattern Of Pain, Overcoming Adapted Behaviors

2 Bonus Chapters...The Spell of a Toxic Relationship and The Identity Change" The Pattern of Pain, Overcoming Adapted Behaviors," is an autobiography filled with Confessions and Testimony. It was a healing process that exposed real events in the life of a single mother and her children. Her confession reveals secrets, patterns, addictions and negative behaviors that steered her down the path of destruction. " When life couldn't get any worse" Jacob, her four year old son is diagnosed with Leukemia, but "Something bigger was on its way!" Overwhelmed and distracted with her own personal life; alcohol becomes the answer to her problems. She fails to hear the internal cries of her children. Her neglect pushes one child to the limit in a way she never thought possible. Journey into the events that shifts the course of this family's lives forever. Born and raised in the Bronx of New York City. Tarnesha, departed her mothers house at the age of 13, conceives her first child at 16 and drops out of High School . Neglect forces her into the foster care system. The lack of parental guidance leads her to depend on the streets. Childhood Sexual Abuse damages her emotionally and cycles of toxic relationships were evident in her life. After the death of her son she is determined to change the direction of her life. She proves that no matter how damaging her past was, it's never too late to find healing and forgiveness. In the midst of her trauma, she draws closer to God. She obtains her GED and enrolls into college. Author of her first book, "The Pattern of Pain," producer of "The Truth Hurts" and the creator of character "Ella May Rich." Tarnesha sets out to put a smile on your face, inspire, encourage and help you find "that other side of you" through the power of confessions and testimony; Where her motto is, "The Truth Hurts, but it will set you free." Sometimes we tend to think about ourselves and ignore the feelings of our children. The truth is they are connected to us and have to deal with all of the pains and overwhelming environments we create in our lives. This is the reason why so many children grow up and become the "product of their environments." They learn from their environments! "You have to be Affected to be Effective"

• | Author: Tarnesha G Rich
• | Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
• | Publication Date: Apr 09, 2019
• | Number of Pages: 213 pages
• | Language: English
• | Binding: Paperback
• | ISBN-10: 1729661815
• | ISBN-13: 9781729661819