IF - HOW - WHEN - it is time to end a relationship and do it in a mature and respectful manner, cognizant of both parties' feelings and self-image. An extensive Questionnaire is provided to assist individuals in pinpointing exactly what they like and don't like about their partner and the way they interact as a couple.Breaking-Up is a necessary part of the mating ritual. Although ending a relationship is never pleasant, it is possible to do it in a mature and humane way which can lessen the hurt. Broken hearts do mend; what is remembered is how each person was treated in the process.