The Hidden Heavy Load We Carry! Moral Injury in Childen & Adults: Evaluating & Repairing Moral Injury's Self-doubt, Shame & Guilt With the Pulse of Li

The Hidden Heavy Load We Carry! Moral Injury in Children & Adults A Guide for Children & Adults Restoring Connection Compassion & Morality Healing the Hidden Wounds of Self-doubt, Shame & Guilt Moral Injury & Mental Health Volume 2 Children Feel It Too This book focuses on children - not just because it's written for parents, teachers, and caregivers - but because we all still carry the wounded child within us. That child may have never been given the language to speak about their pain, but the body remembered. Many children don't have the words to say "I feel ashamed" or "I feel morally lost," but they show it - through behavior, anxiety, anger, illness, or emotional withdrawal.Even in infancy, the seeds of moral injury can be planted - not because someone meant to hurt the child, but because connection was missed, compassion was withheld, or the child was forced to reject their own inner truth. In teens and adults, this pain becomes more disguised. We suppress it. We numb it. We pretend it's not there. But it shows up anyway - as the 3 L's: Feeling Lonely, even when surrounded by peopleFeeling Lacking, even when we have enoughFeeling Lost, even when we know where we areWe all carry a heavy load, whether we realize it or not.Sometimes it's hard to name, but we feel it - in our tension, our tiredness, our confusion, or the quiet ache of something missing. This load doesn't always come from what we've done wrong. More often, it comes from what we didn't do at all. It comes from what we ignored, indulged, or rejected when we should have paid attention, cared, or connected. It's the weight of unnoticed harm, especially the harm we do to ourselves and to others through neglect, avoidance, or disconnection. That's where Moral Injury begins. This book is about that injury - how it forms not only in soldiers or trauma survivors but in children, parents, teachers, healthcare workers, and everyday people like you and me. It's about the pain of self-doubt, shame, and guilt that builds up not from big dramatic events, but from daily moral stress and quiet betrayals of our better selves.And most importantly, it's about how to heal. A Mind Model for Healing: The Pulse of LifeAt the center of this healing is a new way of understanding the mind - a model we call the Pulse of Life. Like the steady beat of the heart, the Pulse of Life keeps us mentally and morally alive when it's strong. It's made up of three powers: Connection - to ourselves, others, our bodies, and the world around usCompassion - especially in how we respond to sufferingMoral Choice - choosing what helps, not what harmsWhen these are weakened, we suffer what we call Pulse of Life Deficit Disorder - a name for the condition where the very forces that help us thrive begin to fade.And when that happens, Moral Injury takes root - first quietly, then deeply. A Cycle We Must InterruptThese feelings don't come out of nowhere. They come from a deeper cycle of unconscious choice - a pattern called the Cycle of Self-Destructive Disorder (CSDD). It's a chain reaction where each unwise choice leads to another: ignoring, indulging, rejecting - again and again. It doesn't mean we're bad. It means we're hurt, and trying to survive without the Pulse of Life fully online. What makes this worse is that many people don't know how to break the cycle. They try to think their way out of it, or distract themselves, or push through with willpower. But what's needed is a different kind of courage - the courage to feel.This book offers a starting point that's both simple and profound. We call it the FFC Formula: Face what isFeel what hurtsChoose what helpsI

• | Author: Cyril Puhalla
• | Publisher: Independently Published
• | Publication Date: Jun 04, 2025
• | Number of Pages: 00138 pages
• | Binding: Paperback or Softback
• | ISBN-10: NA
• | ISBN-13: 9798316676590